DESPERATELY WANTON GIRL

Dear Ella and Suse
I am in a relationship but I think about another man all the time, who used to court me but that I refused to remain faithful to my current SO. I also am struggling with a bit of a depression. How to bear it?
Thank you for your bookish help,
Desperately Wanton Girl
Dear Desperately Wanton,
We feel you need a good dose of the excellent book, Patience, by John Coates. This delightful, upbeat, irreverent novel written in the 1950's captures the woman's perspective brilliantly, and surprisingly well for a man of his time. The heroine, Patience, is seemingly happy in a loving marriage, but it becomes apparent that her husband and she have almost nothing in common. When she meets another man and falls head over heels in love, she has her first experience of true passion, and realises she must do something about her life. This novel has a subtly subversive message, and it will have you questioning your own preconceptions about love, marriage and fidelity 
Then read Miranda July's new book, The First Bad Man, and that will really shake things up.
All the best,
Ella and Suse
We prescribe -  

Patience, by John Coates
The First Bad Man by Miranda July

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